"The Male Dilemma - A Woman's Secret Language Exposed" By Rana Adamchick

 

You probably thought you were prepared for any disaster. You've tackled hurricanes, floods, fires, even terrorist attacks. "However", said Rana Adamchick, author of 'The Male Dilemma -- A Woman's Secret Language Exposed', "I'm sure you never imagined the amount of damage one simple communication can cause, after you get involved in a relationship. Within minutes of saying something to your significant other -- you could end up sleeping on the couch, at the office, or even headed to the divorce courts." You could literally lose everything you ever owned, in the blink of an eye.
 

So...how do men protect themselves, against the possible catastrophic loss that seems inevitable? Enter the translator -- The new book that helps men to understand what women are trying to communicate. According to Ms Adamchick, who is also the founder of getogethersafe.com, a premiere online dating site, "Often, the easiest defense against communication breakdown is knowing how to respond. Believe it or not, most women simply want to feel valued, but the majority won't tell you that, upfront."
 

The reason for this is simple. Women don't communicate, directly. Naturally, loss of communication can complicate and stress any relationship. Nonetheless, many women end up using something called, 'cryptic talk', as a buffer to avoid direct confrontations, with the opposite sex. Although this type of communication might work amongst women, there's a serious problem when it's employed in a relationship. The cryptic language loses it's translation. Let's add one more problem to the situation; Most men don't understand the basic female language, in the first place. Between the two problems, you end up with a relationship that has the potential to become another statistic.

To make sure that the methods in the book worked, participants from the author's dating site tested out the translations, and reported that the results were phenomenal. Yes, it actually works, in real time! Men seem to be especially thrilled with the dictionary format of the book, so they can quickly look up an appropriate response, when presented with one of those age-old 'loaded' questions. Since it's in a downloadable format, it's easy to read...right on one's computer. Look ma, no more arguing!

 

'The Male Dilemma' gives the typical man a leg-up (so to speak.) According to a study that the author did, "The males that used the translations, seemed to fare better than those who didn't. Essentially, hearing their significant other became easy, since they already knew what to anticipate, and how to respond." Reading the book, could mean the difference between listening to six hours of arguing, a night's peace, or possibly, even a trip to court.